The only thing you can do is learn to roll with the punches and wait for the good times to come around again. Better yet it's learning how to create those good times your self and making others see them. The good. It is in everthing if you learn to look for it.
I have had to learn this. There is good in getting lost because it teaches you to see the world around you. You go on an adventure and learn a new way to go. The good in a lost assignment is that though you might get knocked back a step it drives you to work harder to prove that one can overcome a challenge. The good in a lost camera is that it makes you pay closer attention to everything because the only place you can capture it is in you head and in your heart.
The good in a death is harder, but I have found it. The good that came from my father's death is that I have learned that I am strong enough to live for my self and not him. It was realizing though he was my father he had touched many lives, and will still touch more with the memoeries he left behind. The good that one more person is in heaven watching out for us and knowing no matter what he'll be in my every step. Though it isn't enough at times it helps if we remember all the good things because they make life worth living. It's to short to be mad it's to short to hold grudge and it's to short to live in the past.
Life is just long enough to live, to forgive, to love, and to touch others with each of these.
So I will love. I will live. And I will forgive.
Please listen to these songs:
I love you Daddy. These were all songs I wanted to either sing for you and Mom or that remind me of you. There my favorites.
