El novio?

So my currant "love interest" happens to be one of my close friends. Agian. Yiu see the problem with this is i really like him and he says he likes me, but he won't date me. Yeah that totally confused me. So I asked him why and he said that even though he has reasons he won't tell me what they are. My friends don't see whats wrong with the picture. I mean according to them were dating subconsciously. I drag him to all the artsy things and in return he has someone to complain to. So what's the issue? The issue is it's almost Valentine's Day and I want to have a valentine for once in my life! For Pete's sake is that too much to ask for?